Bob Jones
Posted by Charley  on May 28, 2014, 7:38 pm
My friend Bob Jones (a.k.a Boca Bob to some) passed away yesterday in Boca de Iguanas.
He was a good friend of 25 years and I'll miss him. RIP Bob.
Bob and Cissie at their wedding aniversary.
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Posted by David Dagoli on May 28, 2014, 8:21 pm, in reply to "Bob Jones"
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Our sincere condolences to Cissy and the family. We lost another great friend and a wonderful man. He lived life to the fullest and was always so generous.
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-----------------------------Boca Bob (Bobby) has left the house
Posted by Daniel Hallas on May 28, 2014, 9:27 pm, in reply to "Bob Jones"
Edited by board administrator May 28, 2014, 9:37 pm
I want to express my condolences to the family at this time of intense contrast,
reflection and loss. I am here or there if you need anything.
I learned of the news this afternoon by email and I have Cissie's permission
to share this with you.
"Good morning my wonderful friends.... I tried to write individual notes
to you all, but it was taking way too long because there seemed to
be too much to say and too many good friends..... so hope you don't mind
that I share my story with you all....
I lost my Bobby Monday morning at 6:15 (Memorial Day). Jimmy and I were
sitting with him, holding him... His last gesture was to reach up from the
bed and stroke my hair and cup my cheek...It was a hard but beautiful experience...
He is no longer suffering and I feel he is with me still...
After he passed away, I walked on the front porch and watched a huge storm
across the bay... Beautiful lightning with amazing colors of the sunrise....
The ocean was calm and hundreds of birds flew by.....Then we had an
unbelievable windstorm....it only lasted a couple of minutes but the wind
whipped through the tree tops and blew things around in the yard .....
and then it was gone !! The birds in the trees started singing like -
'what the heck was that !' He made a grand exit for me... with style
- like he always did...
The rest of the day was crazy......dying in Mexico is not an easy thing....
First of all, when the funeral home people came, I had to miraculously
produce Bobby's birth certificate and our marriage license....
Someone must have been looking out for me because within 5 minutes I found
them both.... the marriage license I hadn't seen since we got married !!!
Jim and I had to drive to La Huerta with the funeral home men to sign
his death certificate and get permission to have him cremated....
as usual, doing any official business in Mexico has it's challenges...
We ran into a lot of crazy problems but 'thank God for Alejandro' ...
he managed to get all taken care of within a couple of hours.....
He then accompanied Bobby to the funeral home and brought his ashes home to me....
Tom flew in that night so both boys are here with me now. Jackie will come
when they leave to be with me.
The day passed and I snuggled in his spot for the night, talking to him and
remembering all of our 50 wonderful years together.
He was ready to go and is waiting for me when I go.... I am at peace
but will miss him...
I love you all - and you all held a special place in Bobby's heart...
lots and lots of love
Cissie
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Behind every good person is a good person and it goes without saying that Cissie
is a strong, caring, wonderful person!
Bobby may have left the house but he is very much present in my mind and
in my life. Thanks Bobby.
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Posted by jennifer on May 29, 2014, 1:30 am, in reply to "Boca Bob (Bobby) has left the house"
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Dear Cissie - What a beautiful eulogy and loving memory of your Bobby. We only knew him briefly, but he touched our hearts when we met him at Coconuts by the Sea in November. And actually, his reputation preceded him (as did yours!) because we had heard so many wonderful stories of you both from Ron and Brenda. We are so happy to know you and to have met Bobby and spent some time at your special spot at Coconuts.
Sending you much love from Bowen Island,
Jen and Pete
xo
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Posted by Kenny P on May 29, 2014, 6:46 am, in reply to "Boca Bob (Bobby) has left the house"
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I'm so sorry to hear of Bob's passing.I check this page every now and then and commented for the first time yesterday on a different subject,please relay our deepest sympathies to the rest of the family.
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Posted by helga on May 29, 2014, 12:01 pm, in reply to "Re: Boca Bob (Bobby) has left the house"
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Cissy,
you and Bobby brought some food over when my Joe died. I am sorry I can not do the same since I am in Canada
but my heart and my thoughts are with you today.
Bobbi was much loved by my family.
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Posted by Joe Lusk on May 29, 2014, 12:09 pm, in reply to "Re: Boca Bob (Bobby) has left the house"
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So sorry to hear Cissie. I am very glad I got out to see him when I did. Let me know if there is anything I can do. Love you, Joe.
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Posted by bernie lewis on May 29, 2014, 1:20 pm, in reply to "Re: Boca Bob (Bobby) has left the house"
Dear Cissie- Cynthia and I send you and the family our sincere condolences. It was a pleasure to have known Bob and we thank you for sharing your
loving message with us and the many friends whose life he...and you have touched.
With much love Cynthia and Bernie
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Posted by Laurie on May 30, 2014, 7:10 pm, in reply to "Boca Bob (Bobby) has left the house"
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Cissie,
We are so sadden to hear of Bob's passing.
We have very fond memories of staying at Coconuts
By The Sea and meeting two very Special People.
Your Beach Neighbors,
Ron & Laurie
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Posted by hank and conrad on June 4, 2014, 11:39 pm, in reply to "Boca Bob (Bobby) has left the house"
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Cissie, we just heard about Bob. We are so sorry he had to leave you. We wish you strength and peace as you move forward with your life. Hank and Conrad
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Posted by Brooke on May 29, 2014, 9:08 pm, in reply to "Bob Jones"
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Does anyone have Cissie's or Jimmy's email address? I can't find the one I had for Jimmy. Cissie, if you read this( or Jimmy) please email or forward to bluekanu1@gmail.com.
I want to write to you. Since I heard the news last night, the tears and emotions have not stopped pouring out. There is so much I want to say.
With much love and emotion and sorrow ,
Brooke (and John and Simone Grace)
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Posted by Gregorio on May 30, 2014, 8:53 am, in reply to "Re: Bob Jones"
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He was my wonderful buddy for over 20 years. I will always miss him.
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Posted by julieandrusty on May 30, 2014, 9:07 am, in reply to "Bob Jones"
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Bob and Cissie were some of the first gringos we met when we arrived in La Manzanilla almost 17 years ago. We were all sitting on Tenacatitia beach at Fiesta Mexicana having a great afternoon. He and Cissie's southern hospitality made us feel at home and assured us we were making the right decision of moving to La Manz.
He will be missed by all and we hope the best for Cissie.
Rusty and Julie
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Posted by Carol on May 30, 2014, 1:01 pm, in reply to "Bob Jones"
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Sissy - I am so sorry to hear of Bob's passing. Please accept my heartfelt condolences.
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Posted by Norma on May 30, 2014, 4:09 pm, in reply to "Re: Bob Jones"
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Dear Cissy, My heart is with you. I remember how absolutely wonderful and hospitable you and Bob were the night I spent at Coconuts by the Sea. Life is about following your dream and you and he did it! Bob will always be a happy person in my heart's memory. And when I return in November I would like to give un abrazo grandiote in person.
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Posted by linda mandala on May 31, 2014, 4:38 pm, in reply to "Bob Jones"
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Dear Cissie, thinking of you so much, and remembering being at your place so many years ago. My heart goes out to you and prayers for a peaceful and easy transition into the always changeful future
Namaste dear sister
Linda Mandala
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Posted by Peggy & mort on June 2, 2014, 12:51 am, in reply to "Re: Bob Jones"
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We wave such fond memories with the two of you.
I have you are strong enough to know you don't always have to be. Embrace your loss and deal wih it witch ever way gives you the most comfort.
Get ready, all us busy body biddies are going to keep you busy too!
Seriously, let us know if there is any thing we can do to help you out.
Love you, Peggy & Mout,
P&B & m
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Posted by Sherri on June 3, 2014, 12:22 pm, in reply to "Re: Bob Jones"
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My sincerest condolences to you and your family Cissie. Take care if yourself.
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Posted by Mary Jo on June 4, 2014, 11:26 pm, in reply to "Re: Bob Jones"
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Cissy, so sorry for your loss.
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Posted by Jesse Connor on June 6, 2014, 10:07 am, in reply to "Re: Bob Jones"
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Bob Jones had amazing human qualities to which we can all aspire to attain . He lived his life to those principles with zest and great love for all his friends . That is a life well lived........... he impacted so many because he was so good . When we are faced with decisions in life , we can ask , how would Boca Bob handle it . By happenstance he sat next to me on a flight from Manzanillo to the States when I needed to return for my father's funeral , and left me with special thoughts on the passing of our spirits from this reality to the next . I reflecton his words in regards to his own passing . Is there any greater legacy?
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Posted by daniel c on June 6, 2014, 12:32 pm, in reply to "Re: Bob Jones"
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Bob will be sorely missed!
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